There are countless jokes about men being the high-desire partner in heterosexual relationships. Sex therapists know that in many relationships, it is the other way around. However it is for you, it can be incredibly frustrating and hard on the relationship.
Sexual desire discrepancy is a common issue that many couples face. It’s essential to recognize that differing levels of sexual desire are a normal part of any relationship. In fact, it’s rare to find a couple where both partners consistently desire sex to the same degree, let alone in the same way, at the same time.
If you find yourself in a situation where you and your partner’s sexual desires don’t align, please know that there are many ways sex therapy could make a big difference for you.
Every couple is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. That’s why a big tool box is important. Sex therapy is a personalized process that respects your values and boundaries. The key is to seek help when you need it and to approach the journey to better sexual intimacy with an open mind and a commitment to improving your relationship.
You don’t have to face this common issue alone, and we believe there is always hope for a healthier and happier intimate connection. You may wonder why we are so hopeful. The answer is because we have already helped countless couples. Learn more.